The group of four split up into two by two, conversationally.
A: I am so tired. I had a "club" meet this afternoon and came here right after there.
I: So you belong to the "club". How long you've been a member?
A: About a year.
I: How long does the meet last and how many members are there? Do you like it?
A: We are eight members. Usually, club organizers provide the lunch and drinks in their houses. But today there were no drinks because member does not indulge in alcohol. Including lunch etc. it lasts for about 3 to 4 hours. And yes, I like it.
I: What is the age group of the members? How often do you meet?
A: They are all my age. Once a month.
I: Can I join your club?
A: I do not know. I have to ask others and will let you know.
Suddenly, I realised it was a polite non-committal "no". More seriously, I did not wait to be asked; instead, I put someone in a spot by impinging on someone's freedom to choose or not choose me.
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